Memories dont pop up by our choice.
You cant chose them or modulate them.
The are in our mind and whenever they have nothing better to do
they pop up and bring up the past.
Randomly.
Be it happy things or things that sadden us.
Hardy
----- Original Message -----
From: Anny Matar
To: HARDY BREIER
Cc: Miriam Taylor ; CZERNOWITZ-L
Sent: Saturday, November 09, 2013 1:38 PM
Subject: Re: [Cz-L] Cemetery circuit
Life, I think, can't be contained in 2 words happy or sad. Life is a passage
of ups and downs and, as I am nearly a century around, have gone through so
many different stages in it, can say that I found lingering on sadness is
most destructive. In order to survive and enjoy the "today" I don't allow
myself to keep disappointments, anger which might change into hatred and
morbidity do that. I have learned to forgive, accept and forget. That makes
my contact with my surrounding a better place to live in and ,as Mimi
writes, memories are our choice we can think back to the nice times or dig
up the things which sadden us, memories are something dear to us thinking of
all those who shared them and are no longer with us, however sad they're
sweet.
Life has been my teacher and it reminds me of a poem by Robert Frost "The
Road Not Taken" There were two roads diverging in a wood and I took the one
less travelled by >>>>" I chose the road of survival and taking things as
they come.
anny
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